I have a longstanding fascination
with very womanly things – homemaking, etiquette, crafts. I don’t say ‘girly’ because then I think of a
six year old me with blonde hair in curls tied up with ribbons, having tea
parties with her dolls. This fascination
though is anything but imaginary, but rather deals with very tangible things –
the peace of a clean, uncluttered house, with the lingering scent of the lavender
oil I add to my homemade cleaners, the way we behave in public to make the
experience so much more comfortable and enjoyable for all, or the feel of hand-knit
socks as I slip them onto my feet. Don’t
be mistaken, I am still an ardent feminist, but one who delights in traditional
feminine roles (for myself – I see no reason to force them on anyone who doesn’t
get the same joy I do from them.)
One of the nice things about
summer is it means I get to indulge all of these things guiltlessly. Well ok, mostly guiltlessly – I am working a
tech support job with early hours. I
work 6 AM to 2:30 PM. Mornings have
never been my strong suit, but at least they are consistent and I get to enjoy
long afternoons while the sunshine lasts.
No late nights though. I am
falling over by 10 PM. So I get to laze in
the warm afternoons, go to the market and sit knitting with my cats. I cleaned the house top-to-bottom before
starting work too, so everything is fresh and organised, and old things have
been donated/disposed of as appropriate.
I can simply relax in my uncluttered home, enjoy housekeeping and
baking, and do those things I love best – reading and making things!
I take great pleasure from very
simple pleasures in life, and in particular things I consider lovely like
teacups, and beautifully patterned broadcloth, or when someone leans an old
fashioned cruiser bike on a kickstand in front of a flowering bush. I have discovered Instagram, and have been
posting plenty of images of these kinds of moments. Chances are, I will end up writing about some
of them too. I would also like to change
my blog layout over the summer, and learn to program in Wordpress so I can
customise everything. Maybe if I feel it
is lovelier I will write more. Who
knows?
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